Husband’s Deceptive Behaviors Baffles Wife

I am a 33 years old married woman with 2 children, 3 years and 7 months respectively. We’ve been married for 3 years; I recently realized that my husband has been so protective of his phone, he will spend hours and hours in the bathroom on his phone anytime he has to use the place. This raised my suspension and moreover, his work is such that he has to be traveling sometimes both outside the country and outside of Accra. I got access to his phone recently whiles he was sleeping and realized he has been having a flirtatious chat with an ex. Someone he told me cheated on him with another guy whiles they were dating. In fact,  that was why he ended their relationship.

I realized he has set the lady up with her fashion business, and this happened after our marriage (a year after our marriage). He has been talking to the lady about his building plans, the same building plans we have as a family (telling her about all he has done concerning our dream home). I also realized she was not the only lady he flirts with, there are others. Another lady who confessed to him being her crush whiles they were in junior high school, and engaging in his usual flirtatious messages. Afraid of being left in the dark (not prepared for what is coming) I confronted him, and all he could do was get annoyed for touching his phone, and me not being appreciative of the husband I have; because when he is not on his usual business trips, he is always home (working from home); and that, he is better than most of the men out there. He used his own brothers as examples, they have given birth outside their marriages and he hasn’t. He was unapologetic of his actions.

I decided to go on the ex’s page to see what she looks like and why my husband is behaving that way. I realized she got married this year, and in almost all of her photos on FB, my husband has commented on how sweet she is (not before our marriage). I had the same cheating issue with the guy I was dating and that made me leave him, I am very worried I have ended up in this same issue, something I have been running away from. Okay, so the crazy person I am has dug down to this ex’s information on her husband and have given it to a friend of mine who is single to start chatting, and if possible, end up seducing. If my friend ends up falling for this guy, then that’s her problem not mine. But please David, I don’t know what to do for my husband to stop all this.

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