Men of Valor
Crocks: Good morning, Dave
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Good morning. How are you doing?
Crocks: Not bad. How are you?
DBM: I’m doing alright, thanks. What’s on your mind?
Crocks: I’m part of a secret society for some select elites. It’s basically like a Gentlemen’s Club sort of. It’s not your everyday normal clubs for men. It’s a membership based exclusive gathering of not more than 15 men and 15 women in a day. I don’t go there every day. At most, twice in a week for me to meet people. I’m trying to be careful with my choice of words now because we are not supposed to be discussing our society on social media.
DBM: I understand. How does one become a member?
Crocks: You have to be recommended by a member who can vouch for your standing. But our society is to a varying degree closed to outsiders.
DBM: I see. Does one pay to become a member?
Crocks: Yes
DBM: How much are we talking about?
Crocks: 5k
DBM: A month?
Crocks: Yes
DBM: To do what?
Crocks: Our meeting venue has 15 private bedrooms paired with 15 full bathrooms and two multi-generational living spaces for the entertainment of its members. It’s a space for men and women who love sex and believe pleasuring themselves is their birthright to sign up to explore themselves in curious and safe ways. Our society was created for the members to go all out in exploring the hidden pleasures around our bodies. You get where I am going with this?
DBM: I do. Hook-up joint?
Crocks: A classy and mystical version of hook-up with rules and regulations governing its operation. Members don’t drive there.
DBM: How do you get there?
Crocks: We’re picked up to and from the venue in luxury vehicles owned by the society. It prevents being tracked to the location by spouses. Majority of the male members are married. Some of the female members are married too. We’re fed if you request to be fed. There is an open bar for us to drink and hang out.
DBM: Sounds interesting
Crocks: It is.
DBM: You get to sleep over too
Crocks: Of course. But we have a 24-hour limit not to exceed.
DBM: Why did you reach out to me?
Crocks: I met someone I know in November of last year. She’s the wife of one of my close friends. She was hanging out and talking to some of the guys in the bar area. I was in shock seeing her there because she knows my wife very well.
DBM: Wait! So, you don’t go there with a female interest of your choice to hang out?
Crocks: Some men do. If you have your personal thingy you play with already, you sign her up as a member and meet on the days you meet with her. But most guys just show up to meet with random female members to hook up with.
DBM: What happened next with your friend’s wife?
Crocks: Nothing happened between us that day. She connected with another guy and they went to a room together. I called her a week later to discuss my shock seeing her there and we laughed about it. Two weeks later, she called me to give a day and time. I knew what she meant so I booked a room for that day and we met. She told me it had taken her a bit longer to decide if I would also make suitable sex partner.
DBM: Had you ever been attracted to her in that way?
Crocks: I don’t know. I hadn’t thought of her in that way. She’s a very pretty lady Dave. Physically attractive and very funny. She was desirable to me. We hooked up and became intimate. I enjoyed our time together. We started to meet once every week. I stopped showing up on other days to meet with random women because in my mind, we were building an unspoken relationship. I later got to know last week that she’s still meeting with the other guy she hooked up with the day I first saw her at the lounge on different days.
DBM: Does she know she’s in an unspoken relationship with you?
Crocks: I thought she would understand since we know each other and our families are friends. I felt it would be best to rather keep it close and safe.
DBM: Do you know why she’s a member of the group?
Crocks: Yes
DBM: Why?
Crocks: The other guy is the one paying for her membership.
DBM: Oh, I see. How long has she been a member?
Crocks: Since 2024
DBM: Ha! And, November 2025 was your first time seeing her there?
Crocks: Yes
DBM: And you want to build an exclusive relationship with her on the account of another man?
Crocks: I’m falling in love with her
DBM: Are her feelings towards you mutual?
Crocks: I don’t know
DBM: What made you join this society?
Crocks: My wife is great but I am unhappy in the marriage. I thought I had no other choice to walk out of it. I find solace being a member of this club, even if only temporary. Also, I got to meet very attractive women there. My wife isn’t ugly but there are pretty girls out there who are more attractive and eager to explore different things with a man. A satisfying sex life for a man isn’t only doggy and missionary. My desires were unmet and I had to look outside.
DBM: Why is your friend’s wife a registered member?
Crocks: I don’t know.
DBM: Ask her and come back with an update. Listen, I know you probably adore your women but they ought to frighten you too. I know a very calm, nice, soft tongue lady who is frightened by her own self. Not because these living species bleed for a week straight every month and wouldn’t die; be afraid of what you cannot see in these living creatures when you look them deep in their eyes while making out. You can never predict their real next move.
Crocks: Ok. Thanks.
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