Sock Dump

Belinda: David

David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Eish! Belinda, what are you doing in my inbox? Lol!

Belinda: Dave, it’s not a laughing matter

DBM: What’s up?

Belinda: Are you posting this chat?

DBM: It depends on you, B. If you don’t want it made public, I can respect that.

Belinda: Post me anonymously

DBM: Sure. Sup?

Belinda: My husband, for the past year and a half has been pulling out during sex to ejaculate. He has so many pair of socks at home that he discharges into.

DBM: That’s weird!

Belinda: That’s what I was also saying. It’s weird

DBM: You’ve talked to him about it to seek his true reasons for doing what he’s doing?

Belinda: I have, D. His excuse is that his semen is no longer as cloudy and milky-white with its gel-like consistency.

DBM: What has that got to do with cum dump?

Belinda: D, we’re done having children and I have been putting in the effort to avoid accidental conception.

DBM: Before the year and a half intercourse with his socks, was he practicing the withdrawal method?

Belinda: No. Everything was in fact, normal. We’ve not gotten pregnant since our last child was born in 2019.

DBM: That’s strange.

Belinda: He doesn’t realize that single act also prevents me from being satisfied. I don’t know what to do

DBM: Uh-uh! We ain’t having that. You need to make him understand that unless he’s willing to reach his climax inside of you, you will not allow him anywhere near your inner cushion.

Belinda: He’s so careful not to even pre-cum mistakenly in me

DBM: What is he hiding from you then?

Belinda: What do you mean?

DBM: B, I think you and your husband should get tested

Belinda: For what?

DBM: I don’t know but he’s hiding something. It could be a harmless act to withhold his ejaculate but it would be better to be on the safer side.

Belinda: I caught him in an affair once and chose to forgive him because he promised not to ever disappoint me like that. That was the one affair I know happened in 2018 and he mended his cheating ways.

DBM: He has to be a man who truly reverences GOD, has respect for you and his marriage to you, to want to mend his cheating ways. A considerable number of men who cheat, unfortunately, do not stop no matter the consequences. I am basing my conclusion on the numerous interactions I have had with so many men. Your husband probably continued to lie, cover up and keep secrets from you. If ever you had doubts about his character, he still would admit only to partial truths simply to rationalize and justify his behavior. Something is up with him B, and you’re not overreacting by being concerned.

Belinda: We will go and get tested.

Image Credit: Ketut Subiyanto