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Landing A Rich Man

Written by David B on . Posted in Blog.

David, how are you doing? So, I am going to try to be as honest as possible to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth; so, help me God. There came a time in my life that I had to reinvent myself with the sole aim of landing a rich man. I needed to be a rich man’s wife because I was sick and tired of being a bank teller. I felt like I also deserved to eat at top restaurants and drink the finest wines. I have been married for six years and my husband is filthy loaded. I targeted him because he has crazy money. Luckily for me, he is very attractive too.

I had been playing under the guise of just wanting a man who had his shit together but that wasn’t the whole truth. Though I wouldn’t consider myself to be shallow, I have a hunger for the finer things in life. I love life. I love money. I love to dress good. I love to smell good. I love jewelry. I love great shoes and bags. I want to co-own a beautiful house. I want to drive nice car. I want my children to have everything I never had. And I came to realize later on that, most rich men are willing to pay for someone extremely beautiful and nice to look at and also, fuck.

Love clearly isn’t the most important thing to me. I am a very beautiful woman and I know what the tradeoffs are when dealing with some of these guys with serious money and assets. What I found attractive about miŋɛ was the fact that his utterances weren’t the type that had to buy a fantasy of a better version of himself. He didn’t like talking about or flaunting his wealth. He was just like the everyday person and wasn’t doing or saying too much to make lesser folks feel jealous.

We bumped into each other at a mutual friend’s destination wedding and I could tell he was rich. He smelled rich. He looked simple and average but his demeanor was rich. I needed to test my assumption, and so, I walked towards him with a question, ‘Hello. My name is …. Can you give me an advice on money?’ He smiled with a confused look on his face but I wasn’t smiling back at him. I pretended to be serious and interested to learn. He gave a simple response, “Make sure the money coming in your bank account each month is way higher than the money going out.” I thanked him and politely walked away.
I didn’t speak with him again throughout the reception. When I got to my hotel that evening, there were lovely flowers and a card waiting for me, telling me how beautiful I looked and his willingness to want to teach me more about financial independence if I was still interested. The card had his phone number. I don’t know how he did it, but he managed to find information about me to locate me with beautiful flowers. We talked on phone so many times in a day for two months before asking me to marry him.

He made me understand he had been single because his main goal and focus was to make money. Due to that, he avoided ladies and had never seriously gotten involved in dating anyone. Now that his wealth is wealthing, he was ready to find true love. His proposal caught me off guard. I wasn’t ready to be proposed to. He told me how much he loved me and I had to tell him how calculating I was during the wedding reception. It was just his money and dick I was after and nothing else. I was expecting him to disrespect me, especially being from a lower class but no. He did not disregard or disrespect me for being poor and calculating. Instead, he offered me a dream to live in the present. Dave, sometimes, I wake up at dawn to pinch myself as reminder of how lucky I am in this life.

The day I walked down the aisle, we both knew I wasn’t marrying for love, and he was okay with that. He understood how much I cared for him as a person but was in love with his money. We built a happy relationship on his wealth for three years before I started falling in love with him naturally. The day I told him I believed I was falling in love with him was the first time I ever saw him cry. He told me he suspected I was falling in love with him because apparently, I had been flirting with him for months and was showing genuine signs of wanting to be with him.
Though I was contributing nothing to the table then, he still saw me as his equal.

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Let’s Talk To Sabrina

Written by David B on . Posted in Blog. 1 Comment

David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing)

Participant 183: Sabrina

DBM: Hello Sabrina. How would you describe yourself?

Sabrina: Highly organized with a strong work ethic.

DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to 10?

Sabrina: 7

DBM: What do you want to talk about?

Sabrina: I’ve been proposed to be married. I’ve said yes to him but a part of me isn’t sure whether I’m making the right decision. He’s a great guy but does not earn enough money. He has a bit of savings but he will be incapable of being a good provider. I make slightly more than him but even with that, I doubt we can support a family should we have a baby.

DBM: Is he financially responsible in character?

Sabrina: He is to the best of my knowledge. He supports his parents and little sister. A lot is going on with him. I know myself, and I feel like I may end up being unhappy in the future with him as my husband. The kind of life I want for my future wouldn’t fit into his plans.

DBM: What kind of life do you want for your future?

Sabrina: Let me tell you what I don’t want; I don’t want to end up like my mother and father. Ma was ignorant about money management, and left money matters to my dad after they married. My dad wasn’t skillful in the same and this resulted in unplanned life goals and investments in wrong ventures which austerely affected our family. The man I am about to marry doesn’t believe he’s anything like my parents, but I think he is.

DBM: You said he’s responsible with money, no?

Sabrina: To some extent. I mean, he doesn’t waste money buying designer stuff. He doesn’t spend on me because he thinks he has to save for our future. Every Cedi counts in his books.

DBM: He doesn’t spend on you?

Sabrina: Nope

DBM: How long have you been dating?

Sabrina: Three and a half years

DBM: And, he does not spend on you?

Sabrina: I can remember the last time he bought me something

DBM: When?

Sabrina: April, 2022

DBM: What did he get for you?

Sabrina: KFC. Even with that, I had to top up with a Ghs 100 because he didn’t have enough money on his mobile money that day.

DBM: Do you spend on him?

Sabrina: I used to but had to stop

DBM: Why?

Sabrina: He takes minor loans from me, and it takes him forever to sometimes pay back.

DBM: How do you feel about him in general?

Sabrina: I love him. He makes me laugh but I fear I may end up resenting him because he wouldn’t be capable of supporting us in a marriage.

DBM: How old are you?

Sabrina: 34

DBM: How old is he?

Sabrina: 38

DBM: Before I decided to settle down in marriage, I had to come to terms with the fact that, my marriage may be about accepting certain things in my partner that I didn’t necessarily love. My partner, on the other hand also had to learn how to tolerate what career women like yourself deal with on a daily basis: loving a husband who is not wealthy enough to tick all the boxes on your list.

Sabrina: It’s not easy. Hmmm!

DBM: When it comes to love and marriage, there really are no guarantees. And the grass isn’t always that greener.

Sabrina: I don’t want to suffer

DBM: You don’t have to suffer.

Sabrina: Hmmm!

DBM: In-as-much-as I’m all for ‘living your very best life’, I hold dear to love.

Sabrina: I love love too, Dave. But is love enough?

DBM: If he was making more money and had refused to spend on you, then I would have an issue. But here is the case he genuinely does not have. You can choose to learn how to enjoy him and the relationship if you want to. Life and love can be cheap, yet memorable, depending on what is important to you. I’m creating enjoyable memories with my choice of a partner and marriage.

Sabrina: I’m a bit conflicted

DBM: You need to understand though, that most men, naturally are givers. If a man genuinely is that much into you, he does not find it hard to go out of his way to please the love of his heart, however little. We spend on where our heart is.

Sabrina: You don’t think he loves me?

DBM: I wouldn’t be able to know. Do you think he loves you?

Sabrina: I don’t know. He doesn’t spend on me at all.

DBM: Yeah! That’s a flag for me. I do not measure love by how much money one is able to give to another. I’m not a rich guy but I make the effort to make my partner feel wanted and comfortable. And comfort does not come about without spending an amount here or there.

Sabrina: I agree. I don’t think he loves me as much as he says he does

DBM: Talk to him about your concerns

Sabrina: I don’t have to. It’s not going to work between us.

DBM: I don’t think he’s stingy. He does not love you that much. That would be my biggest guess.

Sabrina: Because he’s been living on a budget with me for so long in our relationship.

DBM: And marriage will only enhance it to an unbearable magnitude. Love should not be brewed behind closed doors, all in the name of ‘he’s saving for our future’. You may end up not being a part of the said future. I’ve seen it happen to many women.

Sabrina: Thank you, David. You’ve been of great help.

DBM: You’re welcome! Participant 182, Zuhrah, left a question for you: ‘I am pregnant for a married man. Do I have to inform him about my decision to get an abortion? NB: I am not ready to be a mother. I do not want this pregnancy.’

Sabrina: See a doctor, flush the baby out and leave the relationship.

DBM: It’s your turn to leave a question behind for the next participant.

Sabrina: Why did your relationship with your ex not work out?

DBM: Thank you!

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Let’s Talk To Richmond

Written by David B on . Posted in Blog. 3 Comments

David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing)

Participant 167:  Richmond

DBM: Hello Richmond. How would you describe yourself?

Richmond: Slowing down and allowing myself to feel the feelings in my bones

DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to 10?

Richmond: 6

DBM: What do you want to talk about?

Richmond: My ex supervised one of my building projects to completion. Unfortunately, we broke up and she wants restitution.

DBM: Why did you break up?

Richmond: I met someone else

DBM: After dating your ex for how long?

Richmond: Five to six years. We were engaged

DBM: When did you break up?

Richmond: Two years ago

DBM: You’re still dating the other woman?

Richmond: We are married

DBM: For how long now?

Richmond: 2 years

DBM: How old are you?

Richmond: 42

DBM: How old is your ex?

Richmond: She’s 38

DBM: How old is your wife?

Richmond: 27

DBM: The building project your ex had to oversee, is it a house?

Richmond: Yes. Our plan was to get married and live in it together

DBM: Who lives in that property now?

Richmond: Me and my wife. We have a son

DBM: How old is your son?

Richmond: One and a half

DBM: Why was your ex the one supervising the project?

Richmond: I was not in Ghana. She was the only person I could trust with my money

DBM: Aside the fact that you met someone else, did she do something wrong to you?

Richmond: No

DBM: What kind of compensation is she seeking?

Richmond: Money

DBM: How much?

Richmond: $50, 000 USD

DBM: Do you have 50k?

Richmond: I don’t

DBM: Do you think she’s worth that much money?

Richmond: No

DBM: How much is she worth, in your approximation?

Richmond: Not that much for sure

DBM: Why do you think she’s asking for that amount?

Richmond: I don’t know. She thinks I owe her. I did not marry her. That was my only crime

DBM: Banyin na obotum atoo susu wɔ ne yer ne twɛ’mu na ɔdze akɔma basia fofor dɛ ondzi

Richmond: I cannot read it. Can you translate into English?

DBM: I was only saying it is of the utmost importance we keep our word, as men

Richmond: Yeah!

DBM: What are you going to do about her?

Richmond: She’s threatening to harm my family, and my wife is insisting I report her to the police

DBM: You needed your ex to help you complete your house

Richmond: Yes

DBM: Do you think you mistreated her in the complete picture of what could have been?

Richmond: I moved on. People move on

DBM: That’s very true but did you value her sacrifices for you?

Richmond: I did

DBM: Did you have her best interest at heart, and served her as much as she did you?

Richmond: I did my best

DBM: Describe your best to me

Richmond: Dave, I contacted you because I want to know if it’s harsh to report her to the police

DBM: You left her for another woman because you thought you were smart to realize that you deserved better

Richmond: My wife was the correct decision to make at that time

DBM: Because your ex was not your only option

Richmond: I’m not sure what else to say

DBM: Have you apologized to her?

Richmond: Yes

DBM: And?

Richmond: She’s insisting I compensate her or she harms my family

DBM: Is she capable of carrying out the threat?

Richmond: I don’t know

DBM: If I am threatened in any way or form, I know I will call the police to report the threat.

Richmond: Thank you

DBM: Did you love her?

Richmond: Ex?

DBM: Yes

Richmond: Yes

DBM: Do you love her?

Richmond: I still care

DBM: I think what you did to her makes her feel as though she wasted her love for you. Supervising the building of your house was her way of proving to herself that she was more than capable of loving someone like you. What you did wrong, in return, was to not prove to her that her love and sacrifices for you were not worth it.

Richmond: Life goes on, bro Dave. I’ve moved on.

DBM: Participant 166, Louis, left a question for you: ‘What are you most proud of about yourself?’

Richmond: I am proud of the love I have for myself, and the fact that I am kinda taking care of my emotional and physical needs.

DBM: It’s your turn to leave a question behind for the next participant

Richmond: Do you give to others whatever they ask of you?

DBM: Thank you!

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Let’s Talk To Asher

Written by David B on . Posted in Blog.

David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing)

Participant 132: Asher is fine

DBM: Hi Asher. How would you describe yourself?

Asher: Funny, cocky, confident, charming and assertive

DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to 10?

Asher: Eight

DBM: What do you want to talk about?

Asher: I’m a social media influencer with over 30k followers. For some time now I’ve been reading messages from people asking for my help. I’ve been contemplating on asking for donations from my followers to help support those asking for help. I know you’ve had similar experiences in the past and would want to know how to go about it.

DBM: Raising money for a good cause is a good thing. I commend you for considering it

Asher: Thank you! Why don’t you crowdfund anymore on your platform?

DBM: I got to know some people were playing smart with me.

Asher: How?

DBM: They were in the habit of jumping from one platform to the other with all sorts of sad stories just to get financial support.

Asher: I understand, but there are genuine cases too

DBM: Yes

Asher: How were these monies being sent to you?

DBM: They weren’t sent to me.

Asher: I don’t understand

DBM: I usually would ask the person in need of help, if they’d be comfortable sharing their mobile money number, so I attach to the post

Asher: Money transfers weren’t sent directly to your MoMo?

DBM: No. If I can recall, only four people have specifically asked to send their donations to my number/bank account, to be forwarded to the persons in need. Anytime such happened, I would take screenshots of their messages and transfer receipts and post publicly. I make public posts with screenshots also of me transferring the funds to the individuals in need.

Asher: Why didn’t you want to raise the funds using your number?

DBM: I have just one mobile number, and I wasn’t comfortable putting it out there. I’m a very private person and wouldn’t want to be engaging so many people on phone

Asher: But you interact with a lot of people on Facebook

DBM: Yes

Asher: What is the difference here?

DBM: My phone number is personal; I don’t have a lot of contacts on my phone, and I am very okay with that. Also, because I receive a dozen inbox messages on Facebook each day, I’m unable to respond to every single one of them. Some people because of that, would call or WhatsApp at will – if my number was out there.

Asher: You don’t want to talk to people?

DBM: I’m not good at that. My phone can go three days without a ring from anyone, and that makes me happy.

Asher: Not even WhatsApp?

DBM: I WhatsApp every day, but with just one or two people at most

Asher: Wow! But what if the person seeking your help isn’t okay sharing their number publicly?

DBM: I give them options to find a trusted relative or friend to use their numbers, or I’d simply use my discretion to find one FB follower that people trust to use their number to collect the donations.

Asher: Is it because you don’t trust yourself with money?

DBM: I trust myself with money; I just don’t want to be responsible for, and involved with other people’s money.

Asher: Alright! I want the donations to be made directly to my MoMo

DBM: Okay!

Asher: I feel like I’d be the best person to account for it

DBM: Sure

Asher: Also, I want people to know about what I’m doing for others. It’s all part of the branding

DBM: Okay!

Asher: Do I have to give the entire amount received to the person in whose name I raised the funds?

DBM: Yeah!

Asher: Would it be unprofessional if I gave 80% and kept the 20%?

DBM: Kept it for what?

Asher: As my ‘well-done’ benefit or even use it for other good causes? Money isn’t easy to come by these days

DBM: If your motive truly is to assist others in need, then it’s wrong to take from what they’ve been given. If you’ve ever been in the position to ask a stranger for help, you’d realize you do so because you feel there isn’t anyone else out there you feel safe enough to confine in; someone who would understand your predicament, and if possible, offer help. So, if they tend to see you as that person they can trust, and feel comfortable opening up to, then you owe them your honesty to say the least.

Asher: I will think about it. Is there any other way I can use my platform to raise money to support the needy?

DBM: You can charge people with small businesses who would want to advertise their goods and services on your page, and then use the money for your intended charity projects.

Asher: Thanks Dave

DBM: You’re welcome! Participant 131, Ira, left a question for you: ‘Do you think it’s better to stay friends with exes, or to cut ties with them? Are you over your ex?’

Asher: I still have this strange attachment to the last woman I dated. She’s moved on but I’ve not. I did some bad stuff and she couldn’t trust me anymore. I believe she was the right person for me; however, I betrayed her trust and it hurt her feelings. I did care about her, though I was selfish with some of my decisions. She has totally cut ties with me, and I have learned my lesson as to why our relationship didn’t work out the way I wanted it to. I wish I could stay friend with her but she’s not ready for that.

DBM: It’s your turn to leave a question behind for the next participant

Asher: What do you enjoy about your job?

DBM: Thank you!

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Let’s Talk To Light Soup

Written by David B on . Posted in Blog.

David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing)

Participant 62: Light Soup

DBM: Hi Light Soup. How would you describe yourself?

LS: 41 years, married, a father, gainfully employed, and I think I am a good friend to my friends. I am the type to support my inner circle if they’re feeling down. I love football and hanging out with my peers.

DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to 10?

LS: 7

DBM: What do you want to talk about?

LS: I loaned one of my friends’ money. The agreement was he had to pay back after four months. Because of the amount involved, I suggested he rather made monthly payments of a certain percentage. He felt it would be too much pressure on him, and so he opted to make a one-time payment instead on the due date.

DBM: How much are we talking about?

LS: 8,000 Ghs.

DBM: When did you give him the money?

LS: August 2022

DBM: Has he paid?

LS: No! Not even 1 Ghs.

DBM: What is his excuse?

LS: The excuses are different every time, but sickness has been the most used

DBM: Why did you give him the money?

LS: He played the sickness card on me; said the daughter needed surgery, and I couldn’t just sit back and do nothing.

DBM: Was the daughter truly ill?

LS: I met the wife one day, and I asked about their daughter’s surgery and she said I might be confusing her with another’s incident. She was clueless, and so I blamed it on a mix-up.

DBM: When was this?

LS: October 2022

DBM: Did you confront your buddy?

LS: I did not. I just wanted my money back in December, 2022.

DBM: Did you make him sign a promissory note to effect payment?

LS: No. We had the extended conversation on WhatsApp, after his phone call. I have proof via our chat

DBM: Was this his first time of asking you for help?

LS: Yes, but he had been taking smaller amounts from our circle of friends.

DBM: The surgery lie aside, does your friend genuinely seem to be in need of help?

LS: I think so

DBM: Does he work?

LS: He’s employed

DBM: What’s his profession?

LS: He’s in academia, a lecturer at the university

DBM: How urgent do you need the money?

LS: I had budgeted to use it for the Christmas holidays. Because I was sure he was going to pay back, I planned with it and didn’t put aside anything. I am very disappointed in him right now. I stopped calling him in February, because I am really hurt.

DBM: It’s never a good idea to lend family and friends money. If you’re gifting the person cash, that’s a totally different story.

LS: The sad part is, I had been blessing him and his family with money prior to the loan.

DBM: I know how you’re feeling. I have been a victim of being played by some friends I loaned out monies to. For some reason, I think they see me to be ‘okay’ in life, and so they’re refusing to pay back – forgetting I had to deny myself some things in order to give them the money

LS: What do you think I should do?

DBM: Are you in a financial bind? As in, do you really, really need the money paid?

LS: Not really, but I still feel it’s disrespectful on his part

DBM: It is, unfortunately. And he will realize it sooner than later, because there is coming a time in his life to desperately need your help again. I am speaking from experience.

LS: How did you handle yours?

DBM: I forced myself to create a mental ledger, in order to consider the almost GHs 11,000 in-total loan given them as their buying out of their friendship with me fee. I respond to them nicely when they check on, or meet me somewhere. I tolerate them for the short time they’re in touch, and that’s that.

LS: I don’t know if I can do that. We used to be really cool buddies

DBM: You’d have to learn how to if you do not want to find yourself getting angry or upset if he’s to decline repayment.

LS: What if he pays back eventually?

DBM: Count it as a bonus, and his friendship still bought out.

LS: I don’t understand why some people find it ok not to be trustworthy

DBM: Some people genuinely are struggling to keep ahead of their bills and life in general. Life happens to people who are ordinarily trustworthy, to sometimes become liars. Many of such people are feeling very low and anxious; especially when they lose their jobs, and are made redundant somewhat. A lot of people are struggling with debt. Let’s not rule out that fact.

LS: Truth

DBM: I have needed people’s help and support to survive in a time in my life; reason why I was encouraged to pay it forward when I got back on my feet.

LS: Are you still loaning people money?

DBM: No. I’m at a point in my life that I need to be conscious of putting on my own oxygen mask on before reaching out a helping hand. If I am in the position to support someone at a point, of course, I do.

LS: Should I call him one last time to demand for my money before considering our friendship bought out? But charley, 8k no bi small cash o

DBM: It’s a lot off money, I agree with you. Call him if that’s going to sit well with your conscience

LS: Thank you David. You’re nice

DBM: You’re welcome. There are other good people out there for us to experience as friends. You seem like a good man. Allow others in need of a true friend to share in your wonderful friendship.

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Let’s Talk To J4

Written by David B on . Posted in Blog. 4 Comments

David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing)

Participant 30: I’m J4

DBM: J4?

J4: June 4th

DBM: Heheheheh! Why do I have a feeling you’re going to excite the living hell out of me?

J4: That’s more of Ginger’s territory. You’re safe with me.

DBM: Hello J4

J4: Hi Daviiiiiiiiiid. I love everything you do on Facebook, YouTube and the website.

DBM: Thank you!

J4: My pleasure.

DBM: Please tell me a little about yourself

J4: I am a 35-year-old Investment Banking and Risk Management professional, single and loving it; very ambitious. I decide what I want to do and then just do it; I love to read, drink good wine; I love to have sex with older men; I’m grateful for the little and big things, and I love money.

DBM: Why particularly older men?

J4: Dave, only a few things get better with age: wine and men

DBM: I see.

J4: Yeaazz! They’re old-school in style, and have got a few experiences under their belts already

DBM: I’m trying to figure out what kind of questions to ask you. Lol!

J4: Feel free

DBM: You seem to have a good day job, why are you into the escort business?

J4: I have two-day jobs. Let me talk about the second job

DBM: Okay

J4: My first boyfriend was about 35 years older than me. I was 19 when I had my first sexual experience, and I remember he approached sex in a playful way with me. I enjoyed how fun sex could be, and decided to be more open and vulnerable with my sexuality.

DBM: Was he married?

J4: Yes!

DBM: What did you want to become when you were young?

J4: I wanted to become a lawyer, but after being in a two-year relationship with my second boyfriend, I wanted to go into investment banking and sex work.

DBM: Sex work is prostitution, no?

J4: That was what I wanted to do initially, till I realized there were ways to make it more appealing – while appreciating the energy of flirtation that comes with it.

DBM: Why did your first relationship end?

J4: He was a player. I wasn’t his only chick.

DBM: You couldn’t have been his only chick, he had a wife

J4: And numerous girlfriends

DBM: How about the second relationship?

J4: Paul was within my age bracket. I thought because I had tried old school and had been let down, why not give the similar age a chance? Also, Lydia was my school mate, and she used to tell me there is the higher likelihood of maintaining a successful relationship with a boy of my own age.

DBM: I see

J4: It didn’t work out because 1: he was broke as fuck; 2: he couldn’t keep it in his pants for just one girl. I weighed the two generations of men I had been with, and decided I’d be better off with a mature man with swag and strong financial footing.

DBM: I see

J4: That’s balanced diet.

DBM: Have you been in any serious relationship since then?

J4: Nope! And it’s not a problem for me because I want to be with men that I have different interests with. It’s always fresh and stimulating that way

DBM: Don’t you sometimes feel alone?

J4: It’s a human experience to be feeling alone from time to time. It doesn’t mean I’m a loser. My clients are mostly married men in a house full of people, but they keep telling me, they feel alone.

DBM: They do?

J4: Yes! They feel like no one in their household understands them.

DBM: What does that mean?

J4: I wouldn’t know, ask your gender.

DBM: How do you deal with your version of aloneness?

J4: I think of creative sexual outlets to boost my mood and metabolism. It helps me to live in the moment.

DBM: Let’s talk about sex

J4: Ah, good! I was wondering when you would come to that.

DBM: Lol!

J4: It’s not funny. That’s why we are here, anaa?

DBM: How do you meet the kind of men you deal with?

J4: They find us

DBM: How? There are a million and one girls on these streets

J4: Dave, I have two jobs, remember? It’s intertwined.

DBM: Oh, my!

J4: I knew you weren’t thinking.

DBM: Lol!

J4: My day-job 1 deals professionally with clients from all sectors: Technology, Manufacturing, Investment, Production, Finance, Science, Retail, Construction, Agriculture, Mining, Healthcare, Energy, Industry, Infrastructure, Trade, Sports, Telecommunications, Hospitality industry, Media, Small business etc.

DBM: What’s the catch here? Lol!

J4: I was not born with silver spoons in my mouth, that’s why I took my education seriously. I may be intelligent, but I am focused. I have determination, I have vision, I have purpose and confidence in my vagina. It’s a beautiful thing, Dave.

DBM: Who was your first client in the second job?

J4: He owns real estate properties.

DBM: You’re still in touch with him?

J4: Yeaazz

DBM: Hehehehe!

J4: He banks with my former employers. He came to the bank one day and my boss needed me to explain some things to him. I did my job and he left a happy man. 45 minutes or less later, one of the security guys in the facility brought me a book. Each page had a 1 dollar note stashed in. It was a 204 paged book. The last page had his phone number and a thank you message. I did not call him. Two weeks later, I got another book, 227 paged. Each stashed with a 1 dollar note. The last page had his phone number again, but this time with the message: WHAT DO YOU WANT?

DBM: What did you want at that time?

J4: I needed a sponsor for my MSc in Investment and Financial Risk Management at Kingston University

DBM: So, what did you do?

J4: I put it across and he was willing to fund my education

DBM: At what cost?

J4: For my time. He is still responsible for some of my all-time best orgasms, 12 at a go.

DBM: Hmmm!

J4: You cannot even imagine it. He has this almost perfect 7 inches curved schlong, that hits my G-Spot with every thrust.

DBM: That’s really something to work with

J4: Oh, yeaazz!

DBM: Why do you think he keeps coming back?

J4: Imagine you, David with his kind of demanding job, and meeting with me for the first time. And in the room with me, you’re still on the phone doing business with clients. I unzip you, and put your shaft in my mouth, blowing you off softly.

DBM: While on the phone with clients?

J4: Yeaazz, Dave, yeaazz!

DBM: Why do you do this second job?

J4: I love to be around men who want to be around me. When we’re together, they talk, share ideas; I listen and learn. In my presence, their minds are entranced by thoughts of finding opportunities within me to feel happy and surprised. Also, the men I meet are hardworking and expect to be enticed by the pleasures of a sexual recompence at the end of a long day.

DBM: So, it’s not about money?

J4: It’s about work and happiness. I work more, I earn more. My second job has given me opportunities that I would never have seen working just the first job.

DBM: Is marriage something of interest to you?

J4: I think of it, but I am not sure I’m built for it.

DBM: Why do you say that?

J4: Marriage hasn’t been on my 10, 15, or even 20-year plan, and Dave, it’s very okay with me. If I want to commit to someone someday, it’s going to be a personal journey to be taken by me and that person. I am not expecting any third party to define what that should look like for my connection.

DBM: Do you use protection when you’re with these guys?

J4: Always.

DBM: How often do you meet with your girlfriends?

J4: We meet once a month to catch up. We also have a SUSU we contribute to for rainy days. We’ve been doing this for almost 20 years. We don’t take loans from outside; we take from our joint savings to do personal projects.

DBM: Lydia mentioned her husband doesn’t approve of you girls. What do you make of that?

J4: We’ve utilized our friendship when we needed it the most, and it has helped us to navigate some of life’s murky waters. That’s why we’re still close.

DBM: Most of your clients are married men, and they talk to you openly. What can you say to married women?

J4: Men want to be desired by you, and giving them a sexual release is what makes them sometimes feel like they’re actually home. Your husband’s drive to want to be intimate with you, often is his route towards loving you. As a wife, you want the emotional connection first, good! Your husband also wants the physical connection in order to feel safe enough for the expressive vulnerability journey you want him to partake with you. Something has got to give.

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CHEERS TO THE MONEY

Written by David B on . Posted in Blog.

Dear Dave,

The men shouting on your page, do they cough de l’argent or they calculate the kudi? It’s just a simple question guys, do you COUGH out CASH or you calculate the money when dealing with us? There are levels oo. Know your damn level before making unnecessary demands. Are you Dr. Kwame Osei Despite? Because if I were Mrs. Despite today, I wouldn’t mind getting Kwame Despite’s cock ring stuck in my throat while giving a blow job. I wouldn’t mind choking on my knees. If I am not in the mood and tired, and I throw up on his penis because his dick was deep throating, because of who he is an what he can do for me ntsi, I will suck all of the vomit back in my mouth and blow his mind till he cums in my mouth and through my nose till my nostrils feel burned. Men who cough cash have every right to cum into the eyes of their wives. You know why? Because 40k bi besu wo me account mu as thank you honey.

Is your bank account name Fadda Dickson Narh? Because if I were to be his wife, I would randomly be visiting him at work to accidentally try and brush my butts against his shorts. With these firm buttocks of mine, he’s definitely going to have a boner while I brush them off. And I will smile while doing it in front of his employees. Mr. Bondze, with Fadda Dickson, we will have sex in the parking garage at his place of work. It’s the risk of getting caught that is going to make it amazing for me. He can even join me at the ladies’ washroom in church, pull down my skirt and literally start fucking me while standing up in the bathroom. It’s still gonna be a hot quickie. I will boldly pull myself back together and go listen to the sermon. He’s Fadda Dick y’all!

If I were the third wife of Daniel McKorley, I will McDan my cunt. Me tw3 besu Dan. I will slide down myself and kiss his dick so passionately, while he takes his shower and slowly start taking his whole dick in my mouth. I will take his entire dick inside my mouth and keep it in till I am almost gagged on it. And then I will furiously start to rub his balls and blow it back and forth. Dave, this narration is happening after he’s gone third rounds on me already oo, and he is supposedly tired. Sika wo fie a, bonus sex wo mu. I am going to make him so wild, he will hold my hair and force me to go deeper. Men with money breed a certain energy in women. We don’t get tired when tired. He will see my eyes pop out in excitement and after blowing him like crazy, I will get up and push him onto the bed. I will walk over him and sit on his face, and he will lick my pussy till he feels like his tongue would gain muscles. This is what gets some of us women so hot that we can start moaning loudly. And boy, we have some of the dirtiest words in our mouths that can make you feel like fucking a hot damn slut.

You still think we are boring? Have the right bank account and place your order. Make dem commot for der with their too known. By now, go and see my husband, he is saying in his head, where is my wife, she should come and read and learn. Learn from what exactly? When was the last time you gave me proper orgasm? Do you even know how I manage to arrive at an orgasm with you? Go and research. The data will shock you.

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CASH IN CASH OUT

Written by David B on . Posted in Blog.

Hi Dave,

My story is not a love story. What I am about to tell you happened this Sunday. I was making a call at the parking area at church. Actually, I wasn’t making a call. I saw a 2021 Mercedes-Benz S580 and I was attracted to it. I wanted to know who was driving it, and since church service was almost over, I went to stand close to it to pretend I was making a phone call to wait for the owner. Lo and behold, one of our associate pastors was walking towards where I was standing with a guy. I was still acting to be on a call with my mother when the guy opened the car to pull an envelope.

He told the associate pastor to give the envelope to our Founder Bishop. He said he couldn’t wait to greet him after church, because he had to be at the airport to check in. I couldn’t even get the chance to flirt with the guy; he was in a hurry to leave. All this while I was still on my pretend call. Pastor prayed for the guy and exchanged phone numbers. I followed the pastor after the guy had left. I saw him stash the envelope inside his suit. He went to sit behind our founder and was acting all normal. Dave, I watched the guy for the remaining 45 minutes of service; he didn’t give the envelope to our Bishop. After church I stayed to see if he was going to hand the envelope to our founder, he didn’t. You won’t believe me, but he left the church with the envelope in his suit.

Dave, I’ve always wanted to be close to our founder but never had the chance. He has so many people around him all the time. I know how our founder loves money; his eye is like a hawk when it comes to cash. Do I tell him what I witnessed to gain his friendship or I should mind my business?

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