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Love In Both Worlds
Snow: Dave, I’m in your inbox today David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hello! How are you doing? Snow: Living the dream, Bruh. Don’t wake me up. Lol DBM: You’re funny. Lol! Smh! What’s on your mind? Snow: So, I read one of your conversations and it brought back some funny memories. DBM: Which of them? Snow: The […]
My Father’s Son
Maryam: I fell in love and got pregnant for a man who we later found out is my father. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Oh! Maryam: Yes DBM: How are you doing? Maryam: I’m fine today DBM: How old are you? Maryam: 27 DBM: You grew up not knowing who your father was? Maryam: My mother was […]
Friend Is Benefit (Update)
Jaisha: Dave, can I give an update please? I am not close friends with my best friend’s wife but she knows about me. I was invited to their wedding. The many times I’ve met with him for lunch or dinner, his wife knew. The same way I inform my husband when it’s those two days […]
Friend Is Benefit
Jaisha: Dave, let’s discuss friendship David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Oh, cool! Great subject Jaisha: Are you a good friend to your close friends? DBM: I would categorize myself as an ‘okay’ friend. Jaisha: What does that mean? DBM: Meaning, I’m there but would hardly drive the relationship. Jaisha: In short, you’re a bad friend? DBM: I […]
Break Time
Anna: Hello David David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hey! How are you doing? Anna: Not fine DBM: What would make your day a bit fine? Anna: I’m not sure at the moment DBM: What’s on your mind? Anna: I am being tempted to harm my husband. I want to hurt him so bad DBM: We are not […]
In The Wrong
Riri: Dave, I need your opinion. Make it as honest and brutal as possible David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): I’m all ears Riri: My husband is or was in a sexual relationship with a girl who is our daughter’s age. DBM: How old is your daughter? Riri: 16. She turns 17 in September DBM: How old is […]
Love Is Not Always A Choice
Zion: Before I got married to my wife, she was my mother’s favorite hairdresser. My mother lived with me 22 years ago. No hairdresser in our area could fulfill my mum’s enormous hair goals. She expected me to always drive her to the saloon, pay her hairdresser and then later pick her back home. The […]
What You Got
Amelia: My husband quit his job in January, without informing me. I am a nursing mother on maternity leave. This is our second child and the transition is still a big deal for me. I am unable to sleep well at night due to stress. Dave, it’s not just my mood that has been impacted, […]
Birds Of The Same Roster
Sonnie: Hey David David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hello! How are you doing? Sonnie: I’m fine. I was one of the guys on my wife’s roster before we developed feelings for each other and got married. I had an active roster of my own but I had to drop everyone else on the list to focus on […]
I Wanna Stand Over There
Paisleigh: Dave, it’s February. Can we chat? I’ve been messaging you since September David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Good morning. How are you doing? Paisleigh: Am fine. How about you? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. Paisleigh: I have a 24-year-old daughter who wants to get married this year. I’ve been a little grumpy about her decision […]
10th Anniversary Message
Monica: David, happy new year David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Happy New Year Monica: Are you still having conversations with people? DBM: No! Monica: Why? DBM: I am on break Monica: Till when? DBM: February Monica: Oh, what I want to discuss with you is urgent Mr. Bondze Mbir. Please? DBM: Are you at a point of […]
Lonely At The Top
Luna: Good evening, Dave David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Greetings! How are you? Luna: Fine. You? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. What’s on your mind? Luna: My guy just asked me to marry him. DBM: Oh great! Congratulations! Luna: Thanks. DBM: You’re excited, no? Luna: I’m supposed to be but I don’t know why I am […]
In His Spell
Paula: Hello David David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hey! How are you doing? Paula: I am fine. How are you? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. Paula: Is it a good time to chat? I promise not to take too much of your time DBM: It is, sup? Paula: My husband is a junior pastor sort of […]
Pimp My Warf
Jr.: Dave David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Yo, sup? Jr.: Don’t go the judgmental route with what I am about to say DBM: Do I judge? Jr.: You do sometimes DBM: Really? Jr.: That’s how I see it though DBM: I see! Jr.: I am a smart, affable and talented young man. I have a job but […]
Dead Wrong
Boahemaa: My husband had a cardiac arrest while forcing himself on me at dawn. He died immediately after he had ejaculated. I found out he was having an affair and had impregnated one of the ladies he was involved with. He flatly denied having anything to do with other women though I had all the […]
Gimme Some Lovin’
Edwin: I had not spoken to my father in over nine years and I didn’t know he had been hospitalized. The woman who is now my wife was the nurse helping him to feel calm and fulfilled in his last days of living at the hospital. I returned home late from work one day and […]
Update: Grandma’s Necklace
Reba: David, I have an update for you. My grandmother’s gold necklace has been returned to me. Everything is intact and just as it was before my husband stole it from the safe. Thank you for letting me use your platform to vent. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Oh! That’s good news. He did the right thing […]
Once In A Lifetime
Thom: Marriage is not an easy decision to commit yourself exclusively to, David, but I have been happily married to a woman I am not ashamed to be upset, insecure, temperamental, win, fail, be scared, happy, unsure, certain or honest with when I am in her presence. My wife agreed to marry me 34 years […]
Taking A Chance On Love
Tyrone: Are you free to talk David? David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Yes please. How are you doing? Tyrone: I’m good. Thank you DBM: What’s on your mind? Tyrone: I am a married man. We’ve been together for 20 years. We met on KNUST campus. I remember my whole world changing when she first walked into our […]
If Dogs Run Free
Obed: One of my greatest nightmares just happened to me. My 10yr old son walked in on his mother and I having sex. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): The bedroom door wasn’t locked? Obed: I thought I locked it. DBM: Was the bedroom door locked? Obed: No. I was slightly tipsy but I swear I closed it. […]
Fixing A Hole
Wendy: Dave, should I concern myself about the kinds of friends my husband keep? David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Do you know these friends of his personally? Wendy: No, but something inside me doesn’t trust them to keep him safe. DBM: Does he feel safe around them? Wendy: I think so DBM: Safety is a knowing. It’s […]
Brand New Man
Marcus: Hi Dave. I am in my second marriage. The first was to my childhood sweetheart. We were together for 9 years but later realized we weren’t a good match. My ex-wife was unhappy in the marriage. We forced to be together due to the fear of being alone, and on my part, the shame. […]
A Piece Of My Thoughts
I’ve been following the court case/sentencing/verdict reading of Latoshia Daniels, who killed her pastor Brodes Perry. The jury found her guilty and was charged with first degree murder. Facing the rest of your life in prison isn’t cute. It’s rather unfortunate but this is what really caught my attention; her reasons for doing what she […]
Always Say Goodbye
Papa Yaw (PY): Hello David, how are you doing? David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hi. Doing alright! You? PY: I’m not bad. Quite overwhelmed. It’s been long DBM: It’s been a while. Glad to know you’re fine. PY: I feel like marriage isn’t for me. And I feel bad about it. DBM: Argh! Not you too? PY: […]
Divorce Song
Lydia: David, do you remember me? David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): ………., hey! How are you doing? Lydia: Fine here. You? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. Oh wow! I’m surprised to see you here. Lydia: It’s difficult getting your attention. I’ve been messaging you since 2023. DBM: I am just realizing that. So sorry. Sometimes, I’m […]
Grandma’s Necklace
My mother passed on to me a gold necklace her mother gave to her. My grandmother had it custom made, designed and welded in Germany in the 1960’s. Dave, it is a 24 karat 100% gold chain. Its purity, weight and unique craftsmanship should give you an idea of its value. My mother only wore […]
Six-Year Hiatus
Crai: Hello David. I was once in a relationship with this man I’m about to talk about. We were very much in love but he broke my heart. And because of the why behind his reasons for doing what he did to me, a big part of me unconsciously blocked anything that reminded me of […]
Deliberate Intent
Karl: Dave, quick chat. My wife complains about every little I do. I’m of the opinion that she’s getting tired of me. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Explain ‘every little thing’ you do. Karl: For example, I come home sometimes very late. DBM: From work? Karl: Yeah, sometimes DBM: How about the other times you come home […]
Easy Pet Name
Harriet: Hello David. My mother-in-law wants me to be calling my husband by a title I’m uncomfortable with. I have my own simple pet name I call him by and he’s always been responsive to it. My MiL thinks I’m not being respectful to her son. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): What name is she suggesting? Harriet: […]
Guess I’ll Hang My Tears Out To Dry
Gyan: I never knew who my father was. I never met him. I wish I knew what he looked like. My mother had no proof of his existence, not even pictures. The name representing my father on my birth certificate is my mother’s closest friend. My mom died of cancer last year. She was a […]
‘Babe, can you focus on the road?’
Hi David. I don’t feel like chatting right now. I just want to brief you on something that happened recently. There used to be a guy working in my husband’s office. He became more like a family friend to us. He died in June, 2025 and we attended his funeral a few weeks ago. I […]
The Enemy Within
Bortele: My husband is telling people I am philandering and making out with any man that shows me attention. We’ve been separated and in the process of divorce. I don’t understand why he’s making me look dirty in the eyes of some of our friends. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Are you sleeping around? Bortele: No, Dave. […]
Heart Of My Heart
Tobe: Good evening David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Greetings! How are you doing? Tobe: I’m fine boss. You? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. Tobe: My story is not so great but it’s something. DBM: Something’ is good enough. Tobe: Okay. I was in my late 30s, and a bit fed up with my first marriage. Our […]
Wildwood Flower
Sharod: David, I have to commend you. Your Facebook is lit. Honest to God; I used to not believe anything on your platform. Some of the stories were too good to be true until my own brother from the same mother and father shared his marital issues with you and made us read some of […]
Passion Dance
Ava: Can we chat? David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Sure Ava: I’m dating a guy who is getting a divorce. We co-own a house and three different plots of land. My name is on all the deeds of the properties because he doesn’t want to give his ex-wife access to them. DBM: He is married. Ava: No, […]
You Oughta Know
Heather: The husband of a friend of mine has been visiting a house in my neighborhood. The lady living in that house is not married but has two male visitors coming to her place on different days and they would each stay with her for hours before leaving. One of the male visitors, I know […]
Struttin’ With Some Barbecue
Oumar: Hello David. I want to share how I met my wife. I was working in Johannesburg in 2014. It was a holiday and I had made plans with some of my work colleagues to go out to a strip club. We arrived at the club after 11:30pm and the show had already begun. All kinds […]
Sentimental Journey
Mofoluwakemi: My husband’s first wife reached out to me one day to ask if I still loved her husband. Let me put it in context; my husband is my first love. The only man I have ever loved. We broke things off in 2008 because I left for Canada to study and fell in love […]
Let The Little Girl Dance
Oluchi: Hi David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hiya! Oluchi: How do we do this? DBM: Just write what’s on your mind Oluchi: I was 18 years old when I got married to the man my parents, specifically, my mother picked as my prospective groom. I didn’t have much to say in their arrangement. It was my 18th […]
Yesterday When I Was Young
Imani: Mr. David David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Yes please! Imani: I’m a big fan of how you do Facebook. DBM: I appreciate you! Imani: I am 36 years old. I’ve been in a relationship with my guy for 5 years. I am sure about him and our relationship so far. He is the realest guy I […]
Before The Next Teardrop Falls
Osei: Who would have thought I’d be one of those anonymous people in your inbox. Listen to this crazy stuff; the wife of my wife’s boss sent me an email. First, she reached out to me on LinkedIn. I didn’t know who she was. 15 minutes after accepting her request, I got an email from […]
Ain’t No Cure For Love
Comey: Hi senior. Are you a counselor? David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): No sir. Comey: You’re not a professional therapist? DBM: I am not. Comey: What are you into? DBM: Communications Comey: That’s your professional background? DBM: Yes please Comey: Why do you do these things on FB? DBM: Which things? Comey: Counseling, music, preaching DBM: I […]
Break Time
Chloé: Dave, my husband lacks empathy for me David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Has he always been this way or he recently started acting up? Chloé: I think he has always been like this but because I was blinded by love, I overlooked a few of his faults. DBM: How long have you been married? Chloé: 5 […]
❤ Is Enough
Tucker: My wife proposed marriage to me at a time in my life, I wasn’t thinking too much into the idea of starting a family. And, even if I had, did not exert as much effort to be serious about it. My wife was the assertive one; she knew what she wanted, while I was […]
Twin Along
Haakonaa: Good evening David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Greetings! How are you doing? Haakonaa: I’m fine. How are you? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. Haakonaa: Things in my life aren’t going according to plan, and I am frustrated. I feel left behind. I feel stuck. I feel defeated and sometimes want to throw in the towel. […]
Whole Face In
Brother Bernard: Hello Mr. David. I have a best friend that I thought I wouldn’t know what to do without. She was really special to me. She’s the one person who knows how to make me laugh out a little louder. I visited her a couple of months ago and I was very hungry. I […]
Momma’s Diary
Kob: Hi Dave, I requested to share my mom’s story with you. Are you free to have a conversation? David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hey! Do you mind typing the synopsis of the story here? I have a meeting this morning. I will come back to this conversation when I am done so we can expand on […]
Dada. Mama. Is. Ya. Gud. Lak
Omari: Hello David. I hope you are fine? I am a silent follower and a big fan of your page. I do not always agree with the way you sometimes think, but I like you for that same reason. I’ve been married to my good luck of a wife for 23 years. When I met […]
Those Confused Eyes
PY: Dee David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Herrh! What are you doing here? PY: I want to talk DBM: Don’t you have my number? PY: I want to talk here DBM: For my ears only or you want it published? PY: Your ears and publication. DBM: What’s up? PY: I think I’m ready to get married. I […]
11th Anniversary Surprise
Vedrana: Knock knock. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Yes, come on in. Vedrana: Good evening, David Bondze-Mbir. How are you? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. How are you doing? Vedrana: I wish I could say I am fine but I am not. I am very upset and angry today. DBM: What are you angry about? Vedrana: […]
Checking-In On Ourselves
Nyakpoo: Hello David David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hello sir Nyakpoo: Yipee DBM: Lol! Nyakpoo: Finally. This is my third hello to you in three years. I’ve always wanted to share my love story with your audience. DBM: Nice to meet you. Nyakpoo: Nice to meet you, Dave. DBM: I’m all ears. Nyakpoo: Before I got married, […]
Learning To Co-Parent
Enyonyam: Hello David. How are you? I would like to share a situation I find myself in to get your views and that of your audience. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hello! How are you doing? Sorry for the late response. I am just seeing your message. Enyonyam: Hi David. I am excited! Finally, I got you. […]
The London Effect
Otwuaba: Dave, can you help me apologize to my husband? David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Oo oh! What did you do? Otwuaba: I left him for another man after he had brought me to London. DBM: Why would you do something like that? Otwuaba: I was talking to another man that I really liked. DBM: Before or […]
Whims And Caprices Not My Boss?
Njeri: David, I’d like to hear your thoughts on a viral video of a dad telling his daughter to succumb to her husband’s whims and caprices because he is her boss. My husband seems to be extremely excited about it, and he’s doing the most to draw my attention to it. David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Is […]
Raw Emotions
Kuntwaa: The kind of future I imagined with my husband by my side, the kind of helpmate and support he was to me and our daughter; the fact that he was the second source of income in our little equation called family. The fact that he was that other parent I dreamed of raising a […]
Believe It Or Not
Roman: Hi David. What I want to talk about is a bit outside of your usual topic here. My family is close to a very popular preacher who I think has made money off the backs of desperate, lazy Christians searching for healing and miracles. He’s been claiming he has seen thousands of healing miracles […]
Truth Will Set Us Free
Kukua: My husband and the Chief Financial Officer at their firm were stealing from their company. I confronted him at first and he denied. He insisted I was accusing him of theft without evidence, and so I contacted his boss through his wife, who is my friend, and made him aware of my suspicions. They […]
Happiness Seeker
Charlotte: Mr. David, how are you doing? I have a problem. I don’t know if it’s an actual problem or it’s just my own insecurities stemming from fear. I think my husband doesn’t want to be married anymore. He hasn’t specifically told me that but I feel like he’s checking out slowly on us. David […]
Sight Restored (Q&A)
Hi Dave, I just read a comment from a Linda Sam. My healing commenced long before I became incapacitated. I loved my ex-husband but I was discerning enough to hold on to my own identity. When we married, I merged some of my money. We opened a joint account from which we paid all shared […]
Sight Restored
Isabella: Hello David. I was bitten by a tick which led to me being paralyzed for almost a year. I remember brushing my teeth one morning and could not see my face in the mirror. I started to see visions and was hearing loud noises out of nowhere, I became terrified because I thought I […]
Still A Virgin
Veliane: Dave David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hi Veliane: Are you free? DBM: For now, yeah! How are you? Veliane: I’m great. Yourself? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. Veliane: What’s your take on virginity? DBM: You’re a virgin? Veliane: I am DBM: How old are you? Veliane: 39 DBM: Oh nice! Congratulations! Veliane: Lol DBM: I’m […]
Eye For An Eye
Aqua: Hi Dave. Story time. When our child was born, my wife suggested two names she wanted me to add to the names I had already chosen for my son. We had agreed on two names, plus my surname. But my wife, out of nowhere, wanted us to add two new names to his name. […]
Seeking A Hype buddy
Gifty: I have never seen my mother enjoying a healthy relationship before. I’ve been trying to remember a single time I’ve seen mom with a man she’s dating or trying to find her way in love with, and all I’ve witnessed for the most part is something toxic. My mother is my best friend and […]
A Brother From Another Mother
Turff: Hi Dave David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hi. How are you doing? Turff: Fine. U? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. Turff: I am going straight to the point? DBM: Sure! What’s up? Turff: I just found out that one of my best friends – I have known him since we were ten, is gay, and […]
What Works For Us
Agymah: My name is Agymah David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Nice to meet you, sir. My name is David Agymah: Hi Dave. I am a silent follower of your FB platform. I have been for years and I love how consistent you have been. DBM: Thank you, sir. Agymah: I have been married for 39 years, but […]
Children Are Always Watching
Akuba: David David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Hi Akuba: Can you chat? I don’t have the clearness of mind to type my issue in length. I will flow if we discuss. DBM: Sup? Akuba: My daughter wants me to leave her father DBM: How old is your daughter? Akuba: 14 DBM: I see. Are you married to […]
Date Me! (Q&A) 5
Hello Osempakani Kweku Poku Addae, Thank you for your question and nice to meet you. I was not afraid to marry her right away because I knew the kind of woman she was. The type to bring growth into my life. Also, I had un-fucked myself from the ‘not worthy of a good woman’ syndrome. […]
Date Me (Q&A) 4
Hello Daavi Elikem, Thank you for your question and nice to meet you. I was not bothered that Bernice needed time to process her memory of Rex. My arriving in her life to love her wasn’t the perfect timing, so I knew it was going to take getting used to, which I anticipated could take […]
Date Me! (Q&A) 3
Francisca Senaya, He raised concerns over whether I had been sleeping with my boss while dating him. I didn’t feel the need to respond to his question, and so I pretended I didn’t hear him. But I told him I needed to date and explore other options after what he had put me through; I […]
Date Me! (Q&A) 2
JC Queen, I was shocked and devastated. I felt betrayed, alone and dismayed. I felt blind-sided, and was intensely hurt. I remember my ex’s sister telling me that being stood up didn’t mean my relationship or marriage was over yet. She kept reassuring me that her brother’s actions didn’t mean he didn’t love me. And […]
Date Me! (Q&A) 1
Hello Kara Naa Akushika Thank you for your question and nice to meet you. When I first met my late wife, I just knew what I felt for her, though it’s hard to sometimes describe. With Bernice, my feelings developed months after I had buried my first wife. I didn’t know I had fallen in […]
Date Me! (part 3)
This is Nana. I am Bernice’s husband. My wife told me about your request to want to share some of our pictures from her Facebook. I want us to remain anonymous. Sorry. I know my wife wouldn’t mind but I do. But everything happened just as she said. For her choice of dialogue in her […]
Date Me! (Part 2)
Dave, how are you doing? My husband extends his warmest greetings. We read all the comments on my story on your Facebook. Thank you, again for sharing our story. “Date who?” I made a somber face with a dismissive wave and gaped back at him. “Date me! I was just thinking about you for the […]
Date Me! (Part 1)
16 years ago, my then fiancé left me, my family, his family, our friends and a host of invited guests waiting for him to show up on our wedding day. He did not show. Dave, I had been dreaming about my wedding day, and even the dress I would wear since before I met my […]
100% To 50%
David, good morning. My husband talks a lot. And because he talks a lot, he lies a lot so that he doesn’t have to sit with himself and listen. He doesn’t realize this but he talks to distract himself from the quiet reality of what the real problem is. He is always trying to ‘fix’ […]
Veg vs Non Veg
Hi David. My Jain wife is driving me nuts. She does not eat any animal flesh, be it meat, poultry or fish. She thinks healthy living only consists of fruits, nuts, vegetables, grains, seeds and pulses. Did I know all this before going ahead to marry her? Yes. I love my wife very much. The […]
Playboy Almost Retired
Dave, please come to my rescue. My husband portrays himself to be well-to-do. People out there think he has money but I live with this man. I know the kind of hustle enabling him to feed himself and the family, or so I thought. I am recently finding out that he has bagged a sugar […]
GOD Comes Through
My wife usually wakes up around 2:30 AM to pray. She will quietly get up and try not to disturb my sleep. Most of the time I will hear the bedroom door gently being opened and closed when she’s heading to the living room. I am not the easiest guy to be married to, and […]
It’s Not Rocket Science
Hey, I have a question. I am a certain guy’s serious woman. He is married but he wants to be with me. I have different men that are attracted to me, including some of his very close friends. I really like some of the guys expressing interest in me but it doesn’t mean I have […]
Being Responsible
I was 23 years old and, in the university, when news got to me that both of my parents had died. The last real memory I had of them was at the morning of their funeral. Their caskets were in the center aisle. My mother looked so peaceful and rested in her casket. When I […]
The Waakye Seller
Good evening, David. I want to share my love story but keep me anonymous. I have been married to the same woman for 16 years. She’s the lady seated next to me on my profile picture. I have not known any other woman but her. Before I met my wife, I was always praying for […]
Landing A Rich Man
David, how are you doing? So, I am going to try to be as honest as possible to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth; so, help me God. There came a time in my life that I had to reinvent myself with the sole aim of landing a rich man. […]
Deacon Muna
Participant: Dave, my name is Munachimso. Can we chat? DBM: Hi Muna. What’s up? Muna: I’m not sure who I am. DBM: How are you doing? Muna: Fine. You? DBM: I am doing alright, thanks. Sup? Muna: I know I’m a man, and a Christian. I am a deacon in church. I want to embrace […]
Worth Trying
Hi Dave. Thank you for this platform. I have been married for almost nine years and the last time I had sex with my husband was eight and a half years ago, on our honeymoon. He was involved in a very scary car accident after dropping his cousin who was his Best Man at our […]
Man like Fynn
My husband claims he married me because of this strange, yet irritating habit I have of speaking too frequently in a question form. I am a very curious woman, Dave. That cannot be overstated. You tell me you love me; I need to know why you love me. You tell me you are not happy […]
Exploring Gray Areas
Dave, no judgement. We know you. You think every black man is up to no good. That was just by the way. There was a time in my life that I had to be tilting the screen of my phone away from my wife anytime she walked by. A lot was happening on the apps […]
Someone Someone Hugs
Dave, it’s my turn to share my love story. I have been married for 14 good years. Before I got married, I was spending more of my time with people who were either twice or thrice my age, despite being in my 30’s. And for some strange reason, I couldn’t get along well with people […]
Make An Offer
David, I have been married to Sefakor for 10 years. We talked about the possibility of a marriage when we were dating. I have to admit that there were times I doubted our relationship. There were times that I strongly felt like it could work. The marriage I have today, 10 years later looks very […]
Let’s Talk To Unathi
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 190: Name is Unathi DBM: Hello Unathi. How would you describe yourself? Unathi: My stomach is full, my balls are empty DBM: How happy are […]
Let’s Talk To Osaze
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 189: Osaze DBM: Hello Osaze. How would you describe yourself? Osaze: A beautiful woman with lips like petals, soft and inviting DBM: How happy are […]
Let’s Talk To Beata
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 188: My name is Beata DBM: Hi Beata. How would you describe yourself? Beata: I am a dedicated, laid back, thoughtful but tired mother and […]
Let’s Talk To Xaiden
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 187: Xaiden DBM: Hello Xaiden. How would you describe yourself? Xaiden: Husband and dad DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to […]
Let’s Talk To Ame – Part II
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 186: It’s Ame again!!! 😂 DBM: Hi Ame. How would you describe yourself? Ame: Hmmm! That is a rather interesting one: a woman who is […]
Let’s Talk To Plumb
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 185: Plumb DBM: Hello Plumb. How would you describe yourself? Plumb: I don’t understand myself today DBM: How happy are you on a scale of […]
Let’s Talk To Calvary
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 184: My name is Calvary DBM: Hi Calvary. How would you describe yourself? Calvary: A once in a lifetime kind of woman DBM: How happy […]
Let’s Talk To Sabrina
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 183: Sabrina DBM: Hello Sabrina. How would you describe yourself? Sabrina: Highly organized with a strong work ethic. DBM: How happy are you on a […]
Let’s Talk To Zuhrah
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 182: My name will be Zuhrah DBM: Hi Zuhrah. How would you describe yourself? Zuhrah: I’m a good lady but when I look within me, […]
Let’s Talk To Ame
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 181: Ame DBM: Hello Ame. How would you describe yourself? Ame: I am a bubbly, friendly, outgoing, smart, adaptable and an interesting person. DBM: How […]
Let’s Talk To Nessa
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 180: Nessa DBM: Hi Nessa. How would you describe yourself? Nessa: If asked to describe myself, I would say I’m an intelligent, ambitious individual with […]
Let’s Talk To Ehab and Xyla
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 179: I will choose Ehab Participant 179: Xyla DBM: Hello Ehab and Xyla. How would you describe yourselves? Ehab: Always trying to measure myself in […]
Dinner Talks
One of the ladies is in her third marriage, which is now in its 24th year. She is 56 years of age, and her partner is 62. He is in his second marriage to/with her. (C.A) The second couple have been married for 19 years, and they’re each other’s first marriage. The lady is 48 […]
Let’s Talk To Wacian
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 178: Wacian DBM: Hi Wacian. How would you describe yourself? Wacian: A man that God is with and for, and is fighting for me every […]
Let’s Talk To Ana
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 177: Hello Dave, I’m Ana. DBM: Hello Ana. How would you describe yourself? Ana: Modest, hardworking and someone who knows what she wants. DBM: How […]
Let’s Talk To Ulani
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 176: Ulani DBM: Hi Ulani. How would you describe yourself? Ulani: I am usually doing what I love, especially if it is what I believe […]
Let’s Talk To Shalom
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 175: I am Shalom DBM: Hello Shalom. How would you describe yourself? Shalom: A man who loves to take himself off on a little sexual […]
Let’s Talk To AJ
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 174: AJ DBM: Hi AJ. How would you describe yourself? AJ: Very hard working and believe in the traditional family system. Very calm and difficult […]
Let’s Talk To Arrow
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 173: Arrow DBM: Hello Arrow. How would you describe yourself? Arrow: I embrace my funky; I do not follow trends slavishly. I love to dance […]
Let’s Talk To Gyasi
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 172: My name is Gyasi DBM: Hi Gyasi. How would you describe yourself? Gyasi: Hardworking man, willing to get his hands dirty so his wife […]
Let’s Talk To Air
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 171: Air DBM: Hello Air. How would you describe yourself? Air: I keep an eye on everything DBM: How happy are you on a scale […]
Let’s Talk To Egypt
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 170: Egypt DBM: Hi Egypt. How would you describe yourself? Egypt: Pretty much messed up DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 […]
Let’s Talk To Atɛ and Aku
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 169a: I’m doing this with my wife. My name is Atɛ Participant 169b: Aku DBM: Hello Atɛ and Aku. How would you describe yourselves? Atɛ: […]
Let’s Talk To Susan
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 168: I’m Susan DBM: Hi Susan. How would you describe yourself? Susan: Naturally a busy woman. I am the type that always needs something to […]
Let’s Talk To Richmond
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 167: Richmond DBM: Hello Richmond. How would you describe yourself? Richmond: Slowing down and allowing myself to feel the feelings in my bones DBM: How […]
Let’s Talk To Louis
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 166: Louis, my brother DBM: Hi Louis. How would you describe yourself? Louis: Not complicated, not hard to understand DBM: How happy are you on […]
Let’s Talk To Baaba
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 165: Baaba DBM: Hello Baaba. How would you describe yourself? Baaba: I have an implausible ability to love, even if it hurts me DBM: How […]
Let’s Talk To Juliana
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 164: My name is Juliana DBM: Hi Juliana. How would you describe yourself? Juliana: I am a full pie, and I give my all when […]
Let’s Talk To TP
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 163: Toothpick DBM: Hello TP. How would you describe yourself? TP: Always horny DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to 10? […]
Let’s Talk To Shaan
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 162: My name is Shaan DBM: Hi Shaan. How would you describe yourself? Shaan: A phoenix rising from the ashes. DBM: How happy are you […]
Let’s Talk To Hilda
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 161: Hilda DBM: Hello Hilda. How would you describe yourself? Hilda: Daddy’s adorable princess DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to […]
Let’s Talk To Paige
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 160: My name is Paige DBM: Hi Paige. How would you describe yourself? Paige: Something keeps nagging at my brain DBM: How happy are you […]
Let’s Talk To JJAS
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 159: June-July-August-September DBM: Hello JJAS. How would you describe yourself? JJAS: Not sure how DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to […]
Let’s Talk to Aggrey and Lora
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 158a: Aggrey. I am doing this with my wife. Participant 158b: My name is Lora DBM: Hi Aggrey and Lora. How would you describe yourselves? […]
Let’s Talk To Kerry
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 157: Kerry DBM: Hello Kerry. How would you describe yourself? Kerry: A fun puzzle DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to […]
Let’s Talk To Price
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 156: Price DBM: Hi Price. How would you describe yourself? Price: I am where I am meant to be in life, and with the one […]
Let’s Talk To Jude
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 155: Name is Jude DBM: Hello Jude. How would you describe yourself? Jude: A widower. I am also a single-father DBM: How happy are you […]
Let’s Talk To Kuukua
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 154: Kuukua is my name DBM: Hi Kuukua. How would you describe yourself? Kuukua: An open, easy book DBM: How happy are you on a […]
Let’s Talk To Ola
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 153: Ola DBM: Hello Ola. How would you describe yourself? Ola: The older I get, the more promises I break, and the baggage heaping on […]
Let’s Talk To Dexter
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 152: My name is Dexter DBM: Hi Dexter. How would you describe yourself? Dexter: Rosemond’s husband DBM: How happy are you on a scale of […]
Let’s Talk To Forrest
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 151: Forrest DBM: Hello Forrest. How would you describe yourself? Forrest: I’m in need of a distraction of a sort from the pressure that comes […]
Let’s Talk To Ozigbodi
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 150: Ozigbodi DBM: Hi Ozigbodi. How would you describe yourself? Ozigbodi: My life involves growth DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 […]
Let’s Talk To Sipho and Annika
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 149a: Sipho Participant 149b: My name is Annika DBM: Hello Sipho and Annika. How would you describe yourselves? Sipho: A very sensual man Annika: Blindly […]
Let’s Talk To Reuben George
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 148: Reuben George DBM: Hi Reuben. How would you describe yourself? Reuben: I’ve been hitting rock bottom lately. Mood swings and all, etc. DBM: How […]
Let’s Talk To Ayele
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 147: Ayele is my name DBM: Hello Ayele. How would you describe yourself? Ayele: I am simply a Christian. I am a mother, wife and […]
Let’s Talk To Sono
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 146: Sono DBM: Hi Sono. How would you describe yourself? Sono: A gentle giant with a heart and conscience DBM: How happy are you on […]
Let’s Talk To July
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 145: July DBM: Hello July. How would you describe yourself? July: I exude confidence and will always speak in plain language DBM: How happy are […]
Let’s Talk To Alistair
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 144: Alistair DBM: Hi. How would you describe yourself? Alistair: I have figured out who I am. I know what I feel and I understand […]
Let’s Talk To Wafaa and Oz
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 143a: Wafaa Participant 143b: I want to go by Oz DBM: Hello Wafaa and Oz. How would you describe yourselves? Wafaa: Not my happy self […]
Let’s Talk To Uriel
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 142: My name is Uriel DBM: Hi Uriel. How would you describe yourself? Uriel: I feel as if I can’t think clearly, and having a […]
Let’s Talk To Pike
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 141: Pike DBM: Hello Pike. How would you describe yourself? Pike: Married, father, and a banker DBM: How happy are you on a scale of […]
Let’s Talk To Zoey
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 140: My name is Zoey DBM: Hi Zoey. How would you describe yourself? Zoey: African woman DBM: How happy are you on a scale of […]
Let’s Talk To Emmett
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 139: Emmett DBM: Hello Emmett. How would you describe yourself? Emmett: Competent DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to 10? Emmett: […]
Let’s Talk To Hera
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 138: Hera DBM: Hi Hera. How would you describe yourself? Hera: Troubled wife DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to 10? […]
Let’s Talk To Rhett
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 137: Rhett representing DBM: Hello Rhett. How would you describe yourself? Rhett: Determined, well groomed, not proud, work-out a lot and always wanting to get […]
Let’s Talk To Mamle
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 136: Mamle DBM: Hi Mamle. How would you describe yourself? Mamle: Radiant, scrumptious, gorgeous, fun to be with, hardworking, troublesome, peaceful, friendly and very active […]
Let’s Talk To Chibueze
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 135: Chibueze DBM: Hello Chibueze. How would you describe yourself? Chibueze: Married but single DBM: How happy are you on a scale of 1 to […]
Let’s Talk To Quinton
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 134: It’s Quinton DBM: Hi Quinton. How would you describe yourself? Quinton: I know when to step in, take over or encourage. DBM: How happy […]
Let’s Talk To Leroy
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 133: Leroy DBM: Hello Leroy. How would you describe yourself? Leroy: Proactive and ambitious in life DBM: How happy are you on a scale of […]
Let’s Talk To Asher
David Bondze-Mbir (DBM): Thank you for participating. What name would you want to go by? (It can be your real first name or any other name of your choosing) Participant 132: Asher is fine DBM: Hi Asher. How would you describe yourself? Asher: Funny, cocky, confident, charming and assertive DBM: How happy are you on […]
